Musings from the Bradstreet home and garden by the sea about trying to live sustainably, unschooling with our two kids and occasionally producing something creative.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Trot Trot To Boston...

Though we've been back from Boston since Sunday evening, this is the first chance I've had to work on photos (lots and lots of photos) and actually sit down and write. Whew! And there's that little thing known as Thanksgiving, which I'm also trying to prepare for--I'm guessing you understand all too well, dear reader, the time constraints this time of year.

MIT Splash

So, we did get Olivia off to her MIT Splash! program, bright and early on Saturday morning. We practiced a bit of free-range parenting and let her out of our sight for ten hours a day where she navigated the campus by herself, just fine thanks (though she reports that it seemed a bit unnerving at times). I'm proud (and relieved) to report that she got to all her classes and had the chance to employ some creative coping skills. Though she didn't enjoy each and every class, she did love Criminal Justice and Science Discovers God. She said she already knew much of what was covered in Insects, and whole sections of the European History In Two Hours, as well, mainly the portion on WWII, since that is a particular interest of hers. In the course descriptions, it usually specifies if a student should have proficiency in an area of math, for example. When Olivia discovered pretty quickly that one of her classes was covering advanced probability math, she made the sound decision to leave the class, but she did it with tact and grace. I think overall, it was a worthwhile experience, though next time we would have her skip the meal ticket and just buy lunch at the student center instead.

Freaky cool buildings on campus.

@ MIT
@ MIT

While Olivia was in class, we spent the two days with Adam exploring some of Boston. Saturday we made like tourists and did the Quincy Market area. As it also happened to be the day of the tree lighting, there were lots of people about, along with choral groups performing and balloon-animal and yo-yo artists entertaining crowds. Since Adam had never had lunch at Quincy Market, we squeezed in, ate our chowder and pizza and let our feet rest for a moment.

lunch at Quincy Market

While in the that part of Boston, we also visited the The New England Holocaust Memorial. I always find this memorial moving in its stark simplicity, and sheer overwhelming-ness--all those numbers!, but even more so when I see it through my son's eyes. Adam read every story, every word. I could see that he was similarly moved.

Holocaust Memorial
all those numbers

We also explored some of Chinatown that morning. I'm looking forward to returning when we're hungry--it smelled so good everywhere we went.

Chinatown

Late Saturday afternoon, we found a bench and admired the beautiful buildings for a bit, and then a funny thing happened.

Beaux Arts
old and new
blue sky windows

A family strolls by, their baby drops a bit of their deflated balloon animal, but doesn't pick up the trash, so Adam collects the balloon bits and begins looking for a trash can, but there isn't one anywhere. So I suggest going into a nearby building to find a trash can. Adam, shrugging his shoulders as if to say, no problem, mother! I'll take care of it! turns and strolls into the nearest building. We see him get the attention of the receptionist, who then brings him over her personal trash can. He turns, strolls out of the building, which happens to be the U.S.Government Green Building Council. He's a helpful and confident soul, our Adam.

a good deed

I swear that the highlight of the Boston experience for Adam was riding the T.
In his words, riding the T is fricken awesome!

doppleganger

Although he wasn't much a fan of the green line and it's connected and moveable sections--that spooked him some, I think.

not a fan of the greenline

Both the kids have ridden city buses, subways and Ts in other cities before, but it's been awhile and there just isn't that much opportunity to explore public transportation in Maine. By Sunday we were joking that the only mode of transportation we hadn't used in Boston was air travel. We took the water shuttle to Charlestown where we explored the Navy Yard.

the water shuttle
Boston Harbor

On The U.S.S. Constitution

U.S.S. Constitution
rigging
below decks
below decks on Old Ironsides

And on the U.S.S. Cassin Young, which Adam found irresistible for movie-making. I fully expect to see portions of this ship show up in Star Wars-esque films by our budding director in the near future.

U.S.S. Cassin Young
so many possibilities
using his imagination

After several hours looking at these fascinating boats, we picked up more of the Freedom Trail and walked up into the charming (ie, $2 million homes) and closely packed neighborhoods surrounding Bunker Hill. It was amazing to see just how much of Boston we could see from the top of the hill, even with feet planted firmly on the ground, thank you.

Charlestown
Adam on Adams St.
verdigris
Storrey St.
surrounding Bunker Hill
around Bunker Hill

Alex and Adam opted to climb the 221 foot tall obelisk, however, and Adam says he can now check that off his bucket list. Bucket list? My 10 1/2 year old has a bucket list? And apparently this particular monument was on it? Who knew? Well, good, glad to help. They did get some great photos.

Bunker Hill Monument
checking it off his bucket list
birds eye of Boston
view from the top
looking out

Tired and hungry, as it was now 3pm and we still had hours to kill before retrieving Olivia, we made our way through Charlestown to the orange line, just as the sun was setting and we slowly (emphasis on slowly as somebody had us get on the outbound train...eh hem Alex)...like I said, tired we were) made our way back to Cambridge.

sunset from the T

After picking up Olivia, we happily listened to her stories about all the classes, professors, students and details of her two days for the trip home. Her notes from that probability class, called The Pigeon Hole Principle? Hilarious. She did take notes at first, but as they were expected to write out the math equations to solve the problem (ie, 10 black socks and 12 blue socks, calculate the maximum number of socks needing to be pulled from the drawer before one gets a pair of the same color) she found herself a bit lost, but to avoid looking lost, she just wrote out the alphabet. So her notes have the sock problem written out then ABCDEFGH...etc. Cracked. Me. Up. Like her Grampie Tim said--she demonstrated good coping skills right there, which is just as useful as any math problem.

We'll return to Boston soon, as we didn't do all the Freedom Trail, or any of it with Olivia. It's so great to have a big city nearby, yet come home again. Just in time to sit down to some pumpkin pie, as it happens. Happy Thanksgiving, enjoy those loved ones, count those blessings and be joyful--and in case you need help with that be joyful bit, read this.

Friday, November 20, 2009

MIT Splash! 2009



This weekend we'll be in Boston so that Olivia can participate in MIT's Splash 2009 program. She's registered for many classes, including nuclear war, pigeonhole science, when science discovered God, history of the world in two hours, zombie defense, criminal justice and insects. It looks like a fabulous program and she's very excited. She'll be going all day Saturday and Sunday with a full schedule of back to back classes. In two more years, Adam will be able to participate as well. I'm thankful we live close enough for the kids to take advantage of MIT's offerings. Even if you live a distance from Boston, you can still benefit from all that MIT offers as they have videos and OpenCourseWare available to anyone with an internet connection.

While Olivia's in class, we'll spend time with Adam walking around Boston, which is always fun as the city has so much to offer--it will be a fabulous unschooling weekend all around. I'm sure we'll come back with lots of pictures and stories about all the fun we had. Have a great weekend!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

A Tingling Misty Marvel

Exhausted, drop to earth below, to wait like children for the snow.-- E.N. Brady
November's leaf is red and sear.--Sir W. Scott

How silently they tumble down
And come to rest upon the ground
To lay a carpet, rich and rare,
Beneath the trees without a care,
Content to sleep, their work well done,
Colors gleaming in the sun.

At other times, they wildly fly
Until they nearly reach the sky.
Twisting, turning through the air
Till all the trees stand stark and bare.
Exhausted, drop to earth below
To wait, like children, for the snow.
- Elsie N. Brady, Leaves


fair death of things that, living once, were fair...--W.Morris
skies are gray, but hearts are mellow...--W.S.Braithwaite

The morns are meeker than they were,
The nuts are getting brown;
The berry's cheek is plumper,
The rose is out of town.
The maple wears a gayer scarf,
The field a scarlet gown.
Lest I should be old-fashioned,
I'll put a trinket on.
- Emily Dickinson


the morns are meeker than they were...--E. Dickinson
so I like best of all autumn...it is tinged with a little sorrow...--L.Yutang
the third day comes a frost, a killing frost. --W.Shakespeare

November comes
And November goes,
With the last red berries
And the first white snows.

With night coming early,
And dawn coming late,
And ice in the bucket
And frost by the gate.

The fires burn
And the kettles sing,
And earth sinks to rest
Until next spring.
- Elizabeth Coatsworth


November comes and November goes, with the last red berries, and the first white snows. --E.Coatsworth
the thinnest yellow light of November is more warming and exhilarating than any wine they tell of.--H.D.Thoreau

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

For The Love Of Home

On Tuesdays while the kids are in their homeschool classes until late afternoon, I'm generally found at home. Often I catch up on emails and blog, do some housework, and do some baking and cooking. Today I had our clean, orderly home to myself. I got some French bread baking and I made a huge pot of minestrone soup for supper. These hours, where I happily while away the time making home, are a gift I am most thankful for. I also relish these moments, the pause between where I sit in the heart of home, feeling its pulse and the arrival of my family. I look around and notice the sunlight streaming in, filling the spaces with mid-November light in a last gold burst before diminishing to dusk. I anticipate my children and husband coming home, knowing that they will feel as embraced by its comforts as I am and this is the best kind of good, a sort of love. This is Home.

it's a happy home
vintage mirror
our sunny hallway
organized home
another view, a place to sit

Monday, November 16, 2009

Bench Monday :: Curbside Treasures

I haven't done a Bench Monday in a long while, and ever since Alex and I found this treasure on the curb in our neighborhood, I've been itching to use it in a photo, so here it is.

Bench Monday :: curbside treasure

I don't do this, that being bring home other people's junk, as often as I might have in the past, but sometimes something like this is just too cool to pass up. The wrought iron is stamped 1877 and it does make a handy little seat without taking up a lot of space. Piled on the curb next to the desk with a FREE sign tacked to it, was another little wooden school chair on an iron swivel base. We brought that home, too. Along with the desk and chair, and from the same period, was a hand-crank meat grinder and slatted wood steamer trunk--naturally we brought those home as well.




All the pieces are in remarkable shape and needed only a bit of cleaning. I like the warm wood tones, the rusticity, the forms and usefulness of each piece. I don't know what it's like in other places, but in Maine it's not uncommon to find useful and beautiful items on the curb, at the end of a drive-way, or in the front yard with a hand written FREE sign adorning them. Yes, we are big fans of Freecycle in Maine, but more often than not we have just as much luck either giving away unwanted items on the curb, or finding just the thing on our morning walks. We joke that my Dad lives in the wormhole of unwanted treasures and his tiny cottage is full of amazing items, cast-off by others. We've found vintage sofas, we've given away furniture, found vintage suitcases and other household items, and I know just the spot in the borderlands of my town if you are in the market for an antique toilet.

Though I'm not interested in collecting any old thing, sometimes someone else's junk is still junk, but once in awhile, when you least expect it maybe, you'll spot a purple crayon FREE sign on an antique school desk and think, I've been looking for just that. So keep your eyes open and keep the back of your car empty, it's the Maine way.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Sharing Space

I know it's a good thing that our kids are capable, self-directed and motivated to get all their unschooling work done, but it means less computer time for me, which means I'm not posting as often. In case you didn't catch that, yes, we share the family computer. Oh, and while I'm thinking of it, how much do I love listening in on Olivia and Adam's homework discussions? Lots, that's how much. I'm realizing that we're moving into new territory, here, when they begin debating how to solve for x or they drop geometry terms into their conversations. Lately the topics at the breakfast table range from molecular biology to the environmental impact of coal mining to civil rights. Have I mentioned how much I love unschooling, not to mention these fabulous and amazing young people whom I get to share my life with? Lots and lots and lots.

Meanwhile, Alex and I are making progress on refreshing spaces and nesting. I'm a chronic room re-arranger and I can feel the energy in our home stagnating and I won't always know where the problem lies, until I start moving things or dealing with projects that were put off for too long. So we move a dresser downstairs and move the pew upstairs and hang some art, edit, purge and suddenly, it's like a window has been opened and the air is cleared. Ahhh. One of my tests for a succesful room re-arrangement is if suddenly you find space and solutions for problems, and things fall into place like puzzle pieces. The old Eastlake dresser now makes room for cards, games and puzzles, and there's even room in the top drawer for the kids to stash their homework. Some of the art I wasn't sure worked any longer, works. And a space that has always challenged me with it's unclear purpose and focus, suddenly feels homey, cozy and practical. The energy is good, invigorating and renews in us an urge to get creative.

refreshed space
a dresser for games

The other thing that I continue to realize, is that as much as I like the spare lines of modern pieces, and I'll continue to incorporate them into our spaces, I'm eclectic at heart. I like color, I gravitate toward a layered, sometimes salon look, and above all, it must be warm, welcoming and a bit whimsical. Thus, our dining room looks like this, refreshed and renewed.

our eclectic dining room

I'm eager to see how you might be refreshing your spaces this autumn,dear reader and just as soon as I can wedge in a bit of computer time for myself, I'll do just that.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

November :: The Nesting Month

it's been scarf weather

Perhaps you're like me and feeling the need to feather your nest this month. Here in Maine, the trees are nearly stripped of their leaves and the branches rest against the pearly skies. Evening arrives at about 440pm and drapes itself on us and it will only arrive earlier and earlier as we approach the winter solstice. The garden needs putting to bed, the blue pots need to emptied and cleaned and put away until spring. This weekend, I tell myself, we'll do just that, and then I can give in to the pull to come in, to feather, to make home, homier.

vibrant hues

I am feeling the sewing machine calling me and I have a stack of projects lined up. We might be refreshing some more spaces and continue improving and adjusting our rooms to suit changing needs. Olivia's room needs some attention. She has one of the few closets this old house has, but it's one not even as deep as a coat hanger and so it's fairly useless. Plus, in her small room, it eats up an entire corner with not very practical storage, so we want to tear that out. She wants simple color on the walls, a new desk, a bit of reorganization. So that's one project I'm looking forward to. I'll probably use the sewing machine for that project as well, as one of her requests is new curtains. That daughter of mine knows how to send shivers of joy up her designing mama's spine, that's certain.

Semi-major projects aside, I'll begin a bit of seasonal decorating towards November's end. The pottery will come out, to be filled with paperwhite bulbs. Forcing paperwhites is one of my very favorite late autumn to winter things. Nesting to me doesn't just mean cozy blankets on the arm of the couch, it also means sprucing up the house, polishing old silver, canning some cranberry jelly and apple butter and baking extra for the freezer. Cookbooks and cookie planning will begin, lists will be made.

Yule blooms in the sun

Feathering the nest in November also means that treasures will be searched for, put away in some hidden corner of the house, sealed away with a wish, a secret to be discovered at solstice. Little surprises, gifts, wishes, hopes, all tucked in--a drawer here, under the bed there, put away for now. I can always feel the house warm to the bits of joy and goodness, trusted as it is with these treasures, the guardian of our dreams.

Max approves

Simple nesting joys about in November. If you are a tea collector like I am, try a new kind every day, make a list of the ones you like best and make sure to share those with a friend. Seek out a local farm for some raw milk and make cheese. Try a new bread or soup recipe. Gather collections and display them in new ways. Make a scrap quilt with that ever-growing fabric stash. Sew up new stockings or a tree skirt. Buy a fragrant nut oil and refresh your wooden spoons, cutting boards and salad bowls. Get out a little leftover paint and touch up the woodwork. Force some paperwhites, hyacinth and amaryllis. Get out that old china and use it. Keep notes, snap photos, make and collect little secrets for your loved ones, thinking of them always. Keep it simple, be thoughtful, be thankful. It's November. Enjoy feathering your nest.